Friday, 3 March 2017

Premarital Sex In The Bible

Have you saw the television series Beverly 90210 or Melrose Place or similar television series else? In the story there are guys and girls who have the face and body of the outrageous. But, unfortunately in love relationships among them many experienced a failure and frequently changing partners for doing premarital sex. Now the question is, does love still has meaning for consumer demand?

Unfortunately, the series inspired a lot of young people will be the story of their romance. Love can arise the blink of an eye and ends with premarital sex. As the value of a relationship is very cheap. Degradation the meaning of this, makes the emergence of early marriage (= MBA Married by Accident) and certainly the divorce. The question is whether God our Creator wanted it?

Certainly romance relationship based on love. Her flirtatious where? Often people look at romance is love. And only a few people who looked at love as romance. What's the difference? Amorous tendencies are followed by lust and its nature in a hurry. While love is a process of progressive and patient nature. And in the middle between the love and romance is a relationship of friendship.

In fostering relationships with others there's a level that must be traversed. Level-the level i.e.,
1. Introduction (introduction). The earliest stage, who know your name, address, 
2. Contact. At this stage, if in phase one conjures up a necessity then that person will contact the person knew it.
3. Friendship. At this stage, the relationship began to extend but only as friends hang out, friends, school friends, a relationship that is built based on the same interests.

4. Friendship. In this stage, there is no ' masks ' and the value of openness being upheld. And at this stage, the number of friends will be naturally selected. So there are only a few who became a friend.

As disciples of the Lord Jesus who has 70 people. Of the 70 people that there are only 12 disciples entails, from 12 just 3 disciples which is often invited by Him, and only one of 10 people the loved one, namely John. Instead it means Jesus loved John more than others. But, Jesus saw based on capacity or potential, anyone can be a friend of his.

So, do not enforce the ones that are in the friendship level entered in the level your
friendship. Very dangerous ..., because in the level of friendship is only filled by people who readily ' blow ' to you, whenever it is. Remember God's word written in bible "... iron sharp iron, human sharp his/her fellow .. And there is another word that is written" a bad association ruin good habits. " So, before you enter someone in level your friendship, you should really examine the outside and inside.

Don't, just because he's handsome, gorgeous, the response was positive, action that captivates, make you easily include them in the level your friendship. Do not because the first sight captivates you, continue to wrap and end up in bed. So many experiences, relationships love hastily built, example: Monday-Wednesday chat, Thursday invites meets, Friday dinner, Saturday, Sunday dating and doing sexual intercourse. Premarital sex is too fast and too furious.

A perfect example of love is God himself. Because God is love and that love wait ... .... Love must also be followed by the Saints, because God is holy. Holiness relationship brings a true love. The love of God never fails, evidenced by the believers were sent prophets, even himself, only to recover and build a relationship with us. If God can't wait, then it is from the first we die because we are not Holy aka sin.

So, please respect it, practise with wisely, build it, patiently going through the process and his work in our relationship your friendship. And for those of you who already have a partner, please respect your spouse and keep your Holiness. Because your body is the Temple of God, the place of God.



Relationships need a process, the process of giving birth to a true love. ...

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