Waiting Love For Someone You Love

Waiting can be defined with hold on fellas.. Waiting is an activity that seemed to be without a clear time limit. For many people, the wait is a boring activity. In fact, when it's become bored there was conflict. The conflict which is able to destroy a relationship, the relationship of love though. It made me think, does my connection with the Father could be destroyed just because an expectation? Actually I'm the impatient waiting, awaits His work in me. Ironically, He who will not cease my waiting patiently. Whether an expectation can only be done ideally between man and his creator? Whether human beings with humans can't?

That was the case in my life about a year ago. I have a love relationship with someone. I

have been waiting this things that look forward to for several years. I am knitting relationship from a friendship. Day by day I pass through with steady with her. Little by little my dreams started arranged neatly in my mind. Waiting to be issued, including living with her. Slowly ... very slowly indeed ..., because I have to sort out, which is what should I do. Until then, when our relationship almost entered the second year, she decided she should be left me. Just one thing that I can remember, getting out of her lips, I cannot. Once my feelings raged ... While yelling O God ..., why she doesn't want to wait for me..? Then I've lamented the situation. ... days ... months ... ... Even I could not recognize anyone anymore who even Father and who I am. I feel my heart was broken and its offshoots tint everywhere .... Pain ..., and leaving a conflict ... which to this day never finished ... Thanks God, She slowly but surely restore fragments of my heart. Where after that I can continue my life. Even as this I'm waiting for someone in my life. 

A couple of months it fills in my heart. My flesh now forced me as it yelling to the Lord. Will I must await again? Until when? I'm afraid, I'm too tired of waiting. His message to me, .... wait. Suddenly I surprise with the phrase, God is love and that love wait ... ... ... (I Cor. 13:4-13). Have your thought, why it put forward earlier? The important thing of love is  wait!!! Ready to shape until sharp. My message is if you want to build a relationship of love with someone, you had to patiently await and use concept my arms are open. What is it? Ready to accept the concept of "granting" from Him and ready to release "the grant" for Him. Soli deo Gloria. Bless you ...

Why Is Love So Painful

Fall in love with million tastes. However when breakups feels also million tastes. But this time, it seems so painful. Like I've experienced recently. We live far apart cities. However we did agree to ponder each other. We are just knowing each other about a few months and in the process there are things we could take to support one another, if this relationship continues into a more serious phase.

And without I guess before, she turns out, she prefers to choose other men that in fact in the past. And the girl confessed, it turns out that she still loved him. That's so dark you know. It's like I ran fast and suddenly I hit a wall. I feel shock, pain, poignant mix in one. I seemed to crumble at the seams. A fact that should I face, I failed in love for this time..again.

After the event,  I pass through my days with grief. As a cloudy cloud that continues

to overarching goals of my head wherever I am. Want to get mad, but I cannot. I want to hate her, but I cannot. I have to thinking, am I have a disorder? I should pissed to her. Why if it undertakes wrestled, but when she has ex boyfriend was back, Instead she picks her ex? But, I'm still cannot accept it, I still care to her. This is it makes  so hurt. At that time, I was really struggling to could face a rough time of it.

And at one point, I think. That I could not change this fact, it is really beyond the control of myself. I just continue to surrender, to let Father God wrap my pain. And I am convincing of myself that only the power of Him who can make me have hope again. I want to say Father please help me. .. I can't face this time alone ... help me ... ....

I Miss You Quotes For Her

Recently a few days not met her, it felt like a month. Wish I heard her laugh, her voice a crunchy like crispy chicken . Finally, there was one word that represents what I'm feeling, miss her so much. I miss her because I fell in love. Sounds crazy don't you. It makes my heart pounding, hands become cold, couldn't sleep, that's so delicious...!! Altogether become one, embedded in my mind and my feelings.

Miss her people said, the cure was met up, but the

problem is, I was just enjoyed our friendship. The last news I heard, there is a guy approaching her. I didn't know what happened with me. I've to confessed before him confessed to her. The problem is I still enjoy with it all but my little heart says I love her. I don't know how much longer I can hold feelings for not telling her. All of you know, every time I see her my feelings churned. Happy, sad, afraid of interfering. I'm glad because I met her. Sad, because I have not been able to reveal my feelings to her directly. So, it is only through deeds, I'm expressing that feeling. Fear, if I'm too late to express there are other man will come in her life. Moreover, the reply has not met with her in the near future, my innate dreamy. Miss her, I want to meet her.

I still believe that Father deign to her, then my life is also definitely Father God has event with her. Moving the two of us, finally meet in the middle I realize there are things that exist in life especially of the vision of her life that can synergy with the vision that God has given me. Our vision is a bit different, but can instead be equipping one another. Subjective indeed so what .. In terms of character, to me the fit really. It's also subjective. Anyway, contrary to the usual my character as reticent.

Currently I don't know, in fact what he felt against me. I worry that only myself who likes her. Well I know the moment Father God was working in me and maybe in her. ....

Love Rejection

She was interesting, friendly, clever, insightful, stubborn, too.. The most important is she has spoken word well, that made me fall in love. I wish she knows what I tell all the things I just told you ... 

It turns out, she doesn't know what I feel. Have you above experiences that happen in your life? Usually experienced the same guy who recently exposed love syndrome. The love virus ' attack ' on only one man namely you. So ironic, I am busy with a sense of love, meanwhile she is so relax. If you do not express that you feel, the virus it could spend the whole your energy. As a result, you cannot do anything because you want to sleep, eat it feels cannot be enjoyed, always remembered her.

 By the way ... I had a similar experience. I met the girl, at first glance she's interesting. Yet too in the recognized result anyway, but quite a lot of things that I can know about her and certainly .... I think the vision of my mission (which I have got from Father) and she could be in line. Almost six months I maintain friendship with her. Roughly until the fourth month, there was a strange feeling I guess. Later I know, I found myself falling in love. Unfortunately, the feelings that I bring continues in my life without ever intending to reveal it on her. My mind says, not this time.

You know, it turns out that just the way I feel ' tormented ' me. Without knowing

whether my feelings this clarity not to clap the next hand. Until then I consult practitioners. She makes me absurdly confused then. She just told, if the feeling of love is already too deep, then it's time I should dare proclaim my feelings to her and certainly ready to face all the risk include love rejection. In other words, any answer from her, I should be ready to continue my life again.

Finally I decide to declare my feelings to her. But, it's not an easy thing for me. We both have different rush hour, so quite difficult finding an empty time to make appointments with her. Its negative effects because it is difficult to find any leisure time. Then, we both start to assume negative to each other. I assume, she may already feel that I'm in love with her. But, she rejects me, subtle way that is shy away from me. While she is assuming, I'm selfish. I don't want to know how's busy her. So, complicated and hid feeling anyway. ...

Thank God, I have the chance, but I couldn't talk to her directly. So, we discuss by phone. Blah ... blah ..., finally I am expressing my feelings to her. Then, she answered she could not accept love from me. My love expression rejected by her. I'm hit, I'm hit. Why? Because, I have been failed to foster a relationship of love and this time, the second.

Thank God, I can continue my life back again. And certainly, I continued to increase relationship with Father, fostering relationships with others in accordance with Him procedures and be patient awaiting His mercy down.


... ... seek God's Kingdom first and His righteousness...............

Love Never Fails

Know it feels rejected? Fails? Rejected, it feels like crushed grand piano. Brak. .... it voice is pretty, but the taste is ... So hurt. For sure, you definitely confused. I was also confused. I do not know exactly how I feel, but here it is i tell you.

Here's the thing ... I was rejected the same person. I mean the feeling of love is denied the same person. One's a definite chick. Do you know, I need a few weeks to prepare my condition to convey what lies in my heart against her. And it turns out the results are not proportional to the readiness of my condition. However, I'm sorry, I am not regret a feeling of love to the person I like is a memorable experience for me.

 

Now I want to discuss that chick. Call it the N. N is person who love God, have a clear vision of life, attractive, healthy, smart, assertive, stubborn, too. ... approximately the thing in itself and made me fall in love ...  At the moment I think and muttering, what I had an opportunity to meet with another chick who got things I refer to above. Sometimes I feel my thought was perfectionist. But, she love God and have a clear vision of life add plus value for me. It can be in line with the vision of God that exists in me is criteria could not be negotiable. The rest  option, beside love to the Lord and so on, it is a great option consideration. As long as we can accept, reply has not been received. Yes. .. don't. It means love never fails.

The problem is my friend's girls near me that, on average, does not yet have criteria that I call the above. And the problem is that criteria cannot be obtained from our own efforts, but pure human endeavor with the Lord. That's so private you know ..!! Agree?!?!?

I hope they soon have those criteria, so I can pick one of them ... Love never fails.

Premarital Sex In The Bible

Have you saw the television series Beverly 90210 or Melrose Place or similar television series else? In the story there are guys and girls who have the face and body of the outrageous. But, unfortunately in love relationships among them many experienced a failure and frequently changing partners for doing premarital sex. Now the question is, does love still has meaning for consumer demand?

Unfortunately, the series inspired a lot of young people will be the story of their romance. Love can arise the blink of an eye and ends with premarital sex. As the value of a relationship is very cheap. Degradation the meaning of this, makes the emergence of early marriage (= MBA Married by Accident) and certainly the divorce. The question is whether God our Creator wanted it?

Certainly romance relationship based on love. Her flirtatious where? Often people look at romance is love. And only a few people who looked at love as romance. What's the difference? Amorous tendencies are followed by lust and its nature in a hurry. While love is a process of progressive and patient nature. And in the middle between the love and romance is a relationship of friendship.

In fostering relationships with others there's a level that must be traversed. Level-the level i.e.,
1. Introduction (introduction). The earliest stage, who know your name, address, 
2. Contact. At this stage, if in phase one conjures up a necessity then that person will contact the person knew it.
3. Friendship. At this stage, the relationship began to extend but only as friends hang out, friends, school friends, a relationship that is built based on the same interests.

4. Friendship. In this stage, there is no ' masks ' and the value of openness being upheld. And at this stage, the number of friends will be naturally selected. So there are only a few who became a friend.

As disciples of the Lord Jesus who has 70 people. Of the 70 people that there are only 12 disciples entails, from 12 just 3 disciples which is often invited by Him, and only one of 10 people the loved one, namely John. Instead it means Jesus loved John more than others. But, Jesus saw based on capacity or potential, anyone can be a friend of his.

So, do not enforce the ones that are in the friendship level entered in the level your

friendship. Very dangerous ..., because in the level of friendship is only filled by people who readily ' blow ' to you, whenever it is. Remember God's word written in bible "... iron sharp iron, human sharp his/her fellow .. And there is another word that is written" a bad association ruin good habits. " So, before you enter someone in level your friendship, you should really examine the outside and inside.

Don't, just because he's handsome, gorgeous, the response was positive, action that captivates, make you easily include them in the level your friendship. Do not because the first sight captivates you, continue to wrap and end up in bed. So many experiences, relationships love hastily built, example: Monday-Wednesday chat, Thursday invites meets, Friday dinner, Saturday, Sunday dating and doing sexual intercourse. Premarital sex is too fast and too furious.

A perfect example of love is God himself. Because God is love and that love wait ... .... Love must also be followed by the Saints, because God is holy. Holiness relationship brings a true love. The love of God never fails, evidenced by the believers were sent prophets, even himself, only to recover and build a relationship with us. If God can't wait, then it is from the first we die because we are not Holy aka sin.

So, please respect it, practise with wisely, build it, patiently going through the process and his work in our relationship your friendship. And for those of you who already have a partner, please respect your spouse and keep your Holiness. Because your body is the Temple of God, the place of God.

Relationships need a process, the process of giving birth to a true love. ...

Kissing After Oral Sex

Oral sex according to sexologist is a warm-up phase before making any penetration. Oral sex is pretty commonly done as a variation of sex for those who are married. However, quite a lot of people that aren't married are also doing oral sex. But here we are not talking about whether oral sex can be performed.

Oral sex becomes questionable when most people consider oral sex hygiene especially related to oral health. Ironically when one partner performs oral sex, his partner refused to smooch with a dirty reason. This is where conflicts typically needs, at a time when one party is pleased to oral sex by his longtime partner, the other is still uneasy. I think you should discuss the importance of communication in the absence of oral sex. Depending on the deal you guys, due to basically oral sex performed on a basis like the same love. There is no measure that is quite clear, given the oral sex is part of foreplay. Kissing lips after performing oral sex in my opinion legitimate only do if you

both feel free to do. Once again it depends with how you guys communicating this well with each other. According to me if you feel uneasy, don't need to be debated and don't do. Remember oral sex is only a small part of the process of intimacy. Don't shred your intimacy with just poor communication.
Be Wise do kissing and oral sex and do it all in the bonds of marriage.

Text After First Date

Usually after the first date, always comes to mind, then what. People said. Then continue to think hard to send text but still not have the decision to send them. Hi guys ... C'mon ... wake up. Send her your text now ..!

In fact by sending a text actually saves the stored emotions. Thus it has its own advantage, because you can create words with non and low pressure compared to the phone. Talking on the phone to force our minds focus on the moment and there is no pause in the talks because it is usually in the pressure to perform a two-way dialogue. So wait for what again? Immediately send a text now ..!!

However, there are fundamental things you need to know, i.e. the content of the text. Often our own confused, roughly what the content of the text, if necessary, contain expressions of romantic. How? Okay, stay tune right here guys ...

OK check out what I said. Ask her, if she comes home safely. If necessary, send a text with the content, what you've been up to the House, if it's already up, reply text her. If you do this, it shows you are very attentive to her. Even if the woman does not like, will certainly look at the contents of text or your text may not be at all. At least you have done to keep the second dating opportunities remain open. If not, be a gentle guys. There are still plenty of fish in the middle of the ocean ...

Tell her that you love spending time with her, commenting upon what just you  do is an attempt to leave the points fond memories with her. For women, it is the praise of her while you are learning to appreciate the existence of herself. The existence of separate meanings which give for you, especially yourself.

Recounting the moment beautifully natural you together. Surelypass joked. Invite her flashback for a moment in the moment you give the meaning you want to be with her, if you dare, you can ask or even convey that you want to be with her again. Carve out a moment-a wonderful moment together again. However, please note, you do not force. If a woman's mind, appreciate her decision because of the possibility of such refusal, your votes are worth it given the chance of a second date.

If what you are doing is not successful, you should be able to master yourself. Remain polite and appreciated her. Thank you for your time and the opportunity that she gave you. And hope she gets something better in the future. And then ... you go ahead, continue to browse while you shape yourself into a decent man. Who knows she's the current refuse you, meet you back, surely a better situation. You can just play your role well ...

Dating A Girl With Dady Issues

Pairing is a very unique life. Because you will meet with a variety of people or of the opposite sex who has mixed family background. Characters that you will encounter, more or less derived from values that are taught within the family. Often the character and background of the opposite sex often make you overwhelmed how it should behave. One of them I'm going to share is a woman who has a problem.

The issue of paternity is is the tendency of the rivalry between daughter and mother in seeking attention from Dad. As a result when God must be called him first to heaven, the child would be aggressive especially in the mother and to fellow women in General. Even in closely related, she will seek the attention especially in men, just to fill in the blanks of the lack of attention from her father who had died.

Here I will share things that you understand in the face of the woman's spouse who has  problems. Women who have problems is a difficult personal father believe in people even includes her partner own. Therefore do not be surprised, if you tested with a variety of ways, just in order to convince him that you are the right person to accompany him.

The woman is the type of person who wants fun many people. She will insist to meet all your needs, even if there are obstacles. She is very sensitive with the consistency of taste your love toward him. Then do not be surprised, if the middle of the night you will be asked to accompany her.


Women who have a tendency in conflict with her mother in a long period of time. This is because the mother's inability to make ends meet as a father. Then you should be a good bridge between the two of them. You have to listen to some of the things you may experience along with women who have problems. So, behind the affection and attention, there are things you have to learn, understand, at the same time strive for her, so she can become your best partner.

How To Go On First Date

Man or woman often complained when they were out on a date while the first time, they did not get a chance to date a second time. Here, I would like to share tips on how to do a first date. Because the first determine the next step.

Open it yourself but not that opens all yourself. Basically if men don't pursue you, then these men lose interest in you. Because the first date has a tendency of couples tells all about him. This can lead to boredom, so the chance of a second date will be lost early on. Then, it would be nice of you to leave the impression by opening yourself to taste. In order to make the impression of man or woman was curious so that open opportunities a second date.

Communication is very important to guarded and controlled so that the created atmosphere conducive dating. Tell things like the activity throughout the day, it is very necessary to avoid. Because your spouse is not necessarily excited to hear it. Hear is a difficult activity to do. It needs to be balanced with a communication in the form of a question. The important question to keep digging and understand themselves respectively. Even the dialogue about the things that are sensitive such as religion, tribe, race, it will be good to pass. As it will get caught up in the debate or your partner feeling hurt. Hurt on the first date is a crucial marker especially if she is a woman.

Talk about things in terms of digging and understand themselves each a very necessary thing to do. Let each understand yourself through dialogue that awakens is wise, I think. Including in terms of dress, particularly women should wear elegant clothes rather than seductive. Wear clothes that are appropriate at the time.

Take the time to look at each other, let alone you as a man, is a marker that your female partner became the center of your attention. As it known to man is the visual creatures, so for the ladies, dress up from the heart. Because of the beauty of the inside usually sought after by the men. 

So the above tips, absorb, understand, and soon do to yourself the more meaningful in the presence of your potential mate.

How To Impress A Girl On First Dating

The first impression is so tempting. The impression is very needed men when doing a first date with a girl. Women really like knowing that her main concern while dating. Women want men to do things that other people is often thought of as a little thing. 

The small stuff is like picking up women until knocked on the door at her home, arriving at the House five minutes earlier or even on time. These little things that will add to the impression women even helps take decisions, whether a romantic relationship is pretty decent stage is forwarded to the more serious.