Waiting Love For Someone You Love

Waiting can be defined with hold on fellas.. Waiting is an activity that seemed to be without a clear time limit. For many people, the wait is a boring activity. In fact, when it's become bored there was conflict. The conflict which is able to destroy a relationship, the relationship of love though. It made me think, does my connection with the Father could be destroyed just because an expectation? Actually I'm the impatient waiting, awaits His work in me. Ironically, He who will not cease my waiting patiently. Whether an expectation can only be done ideally between man and his creator? Whether human beings with humans can't?

That was the case in my life about a year ago. I have a love relationship with someone. I

have been waiting this things that look forward to for several years. I am knitting relationship from a friendship. Day by day I pass through with steady with her. Little by little my dreams started arranged neatly in my mind. Waiting to be issued, including living with her. Slowly ... very slowly indeed ..., because I have to sort out, which is what should I do. Until then, when our relationship almost entered the second year, she decided she should be left me. Just one thing that I can remember, getting out of her lips, I cannot. Once my feelings raged ... While yelling O God ..., why she doesn't want to wait for me..? Then I've lamented the situation. ... days ... months ... ... Even I could not recognize anyone anymore who even Father and who I am. I feel my heart was broken and its offshoots tint everywhere .... Pain ..., and leaving a conflict ... which to this day never finished ... Thanks God, She slowly but surely restore fragments of my heart. Where after that I can continue my life. Even as this I'm waiting for someone in my life. 

A couple of months it fills in my heart. My flesh now forced me as it yelling to the Lord. Will I must await again? Until when? I'm afraid, I'm too tired of waiting. His message to me, .... wait. Suddenly I surprise with the phrase, God is love and that love wait ... ... ... (I Cor. 13:4-13). Have your thought, why it put forward earlier? The important thing of love is  wait!!! Ready to shape until sharp. My message is if you want to build a relationship of love with someone, you had to patiently await and use concept my arms are open. What is it? Ready to accept the concept of "granting" from Him and ready to release "the grant" for Him. Soli deo Gloria. Bless you ...

Why Is Love So Painful

Fall in love with million tastes. However when breakups feels also million tastes. But this time, it seems so painful. Like I've experienced recently. We live far apart cities. However we did agree to ponder each other. We are just knowing each other about a few months and in the process there are things we could take to support one another, if this relationship continues into a more serious phase.

And without I guess before, she turns out, she prefers to choose other men that in fact in the past. And the girl confessed, it turns out that she still loved him. That's so dark you know. It's like I ran fast and suddenly I hit a wall. I feel shock, pain, poignant mix in one. I seemed to crumble at the seams. A fact that should I face, I failed in love for this time..again.

After the event,  I pass through my days with grief. As a cloudy cloud that continues

to overarching goals of my head wherever I am. Want to get mad, but I cannot. I want to hate her, but I cannot. I have to thinking, am I have a disorder? I should pissed to her. Why if it undertakes wrestled, but when she has ex boyfriend was back, Instead she picks her ex? But, I'm still cannot accept it, I still care to her. This is it makes  so hurt. At that time, I was really struggling to could face a rough time of it.

And at one point, I think. That I could not change this fact, it is really beyond the control of myself. I just continue to surrender, to let Father God wrap my pain. And I am convincing of myself that only the power of Him who can make me have hope again. I want to say Father please help me. .. I can't face this time alone ... help me ... ....

I Miss You Quotes For Her

Recently a few days not met her, it felt like a month. Wish I heard her laugh, her voice a crunchy like crispy chicken . Finally, there was one word that represents what I'm feeling, miss her so much. I miss her because I fell in love. Sounds crazy don't you. It makes my heart pounding, hands become cold, couldn't sleep, that's so delicious...!! Altogether become one, embedded in my mind and my feelings.

Miss her people said, the cure was met up, but the

problem is, I was just enjoyed our friendship. The last news I heard, there is a guy approaching her. I didn't know what happened with me. I've to confessed before him confessed to her. The problem is I still enjoy with it all but my little heart says I love her. I don't know how much longer I can hold feelings for not telling her. All of you know, every time I see her my feelings churned. Happy, sad, afraid of interfering. I'm glad because I met her. Sad, because I have not been able to reveal my feelings to her directly. So, it is only through deeds, I'm expressing that feeling. Fear, if I'm too late to express there are other man will come in her life. Moreover, the reply has not met with her in the near future, my innate dreamy. Miss her, I want to meet her.

I still believe that Father deign to her, then my life is also definitely Father God has event with her. Moving the two of us, finally meet in the middle I realize there are things that exist in life especially of the vision of her life that can synergy with the vision that God has given me. Our vision is a bit different, but can instead be equipping one another. Subjective indeed so what .. In terms of character, to me the fit really. It's also subjective. Anyway, contrary to the usual my character as reticent.

Currently I don't know, in fact what he felt against me. I worry that only myself who likes her. Well I know the moment Father God was working in me and maybe in her. ....

Love Rejection

She was interesting, friendly, clever, insightful, stubborn, too.. The most important is she has spoken word well, that made me fall in love. I wish she knows what I tell all the things I just told you ... 

It turns out, she doesn't know what I feel. Have you above experiences that happen in your life? Usually experienced the same guy who recently exposed love syndrome. The love virus ' attack ' on only one man namely you. So ironic, I am busy with a sense of love, meanwhile she is so relax. If you do not express that you feel, the virus it could spend the whole your energy. As a result, you cannot do anything because you want to sleep, eat it feels cannot be enjoyed, always remembered her.

 By the way ... I had a similar experience. I met the girl, at first glance she's interesting. Yet too in the recognized result anyway, but quite a lot of things that I can know about her and certainly .... I think the vision of my mission (which I have got from Father) and she could be in line. Almost six months I maintain friendship with her. Roughly until the fourth month, there was a strange feeling I guess. Later I know, I found myself falling in love. Unfortunately, the feelings that I bring continues in my life without ever intending to reveal it on her. My mind says, not this time.

You know, it turns out that just the way I feel ' tormented ' me. Without knowing

whether my feelings this clarity not to clap the next hand. Until then I consult practitioners. She makes me absurdly confused then. She just told, if the feeling of love is already too deep, then it's time I should dare proclaim my feelings to her and certainly ready to face all the risk include love rejection. In other words, any answer from her, I should be ready to continue my life again.

Finally I decide to declare my feelings to her. But, it's not an easy thing for me. We both have different rush hour, so quite difficult finding an empty time to make appointments with her. Its negative effects because it is difficult to find any leisure time. Then, we both start to assume negative to each other. I assume, she may already feel that I'm in love with her. But, she rejects me, subtle way that is shy away from me. While she is assuming, I'm selfish. I don't want to know how's busy her. So, complicated and hid feeling anyway. ...

Thank God, I have the chance, but I couldn't talk to her directly. So, we discuss by phone. Blah ... blah ..., finally I am expressing my feelings to her. Then, she answered she could not accept love from me. My love expression rejected by her. I'm hit, I'm hit. Why? Because, I have been failed to foster a relationship of love and this time, the second.

Thank God, I can continue my life back again. And certainly, I continued to increase relationship with Father, fostering relationships with others in accordance with Him procedures and be patient awaiting His mercy down.


... ... seek God's Kingdom first and His righteousness...............

Love Never Fails

Know it feels rejected? Fails? Rejected, it feels like crushed grand piano. Brak. .... it voice is pretty, but the taste is ... So hurt. For sure, you definitely confused. I was also confused. I do not know exactly how I feel, but here it is i tell you.

Here's the thing ... I was rejected the same person. I mean the feeling of love is denied the same person. One's a definite chick. Do you know, I need a few weeks to prepare my condition to convey what lies in my heart against her. And it turns out the results are not proportional to the readiness of my condition. However, I'm sorry, I am not regret a feeling of love to the person I like is a memorable experience for me.

 

Now I want to discuss that chick. Call it the N. N is person who love God, have a clear vision of life, attractive, healthy, smart, assertive, stubborn, too. ... approximately the thing in itself and made me fall in love ...  At the moment I think and muttering, what I had an opportunity to meet with another chick who got things I refer to above. Sometimes I feel my thought was perfectionist. But, she love God and have a clear vision of life add plus value for me. It can be in line with the vision of God that exists in me is criteria could not be negotiable. The rest  option, beside love to the Lord and so on, it is a great option consideration. As long as we can accept, reply has not been received. Yes. .. don't. It means love never fails.

The problem is my friend's girls near me that, on average, does not yet have criteria that I call the above. And the problem is that criteria cannot be obtained from our own efforts, but pure human endeavor with the Lord. That's so private you know ..!! Agree?!?!?

I hope they soon have those criteria, so I can pick one of them ... Love never fails.

Premarital Sex In The Bible

Have you saw the television series Beverly 90210 or Melrose Place or similar television series else? In the story there are guys and girls who have the face and body of the outrageous. But, unfortunately in love relationships among them many experienced a failure and frequently changing partners for doing premarital sex. Now the question is, does love still has meaning for consumer demand?

Unfortunately, the series inspired a lot of young people will be the story of their romance. Love can arise the blink of an eye and ends with premarital sex. As the value of a relationship is very cheap. Degradation the meaning of this, makes the emergence of early marriage (= MBA Married by Accident) and certainly the divorce. The question is whether God our Creator wanted it?

Certainly romance relationship based on love. Her flirtatious where? Often people look at romance is love. And only a few people who looked at love as romance. What's the difference? Amorous tendencies are followed by lust and its nature in a hurry. While love is a process of progressive and patient nature. And in the middle between the love and romance is a relationship of friendship.

In fostering relationships with others there's a level that must be traversed. Level-the level i.e.,
1. Introduction (introduction). The earliest stage, who know your name, address, 
2. Contact. At this stage, if in phase one conjures up a necessity then that person will contact the person knew it.
3. Friendship. At this stage, the relationship began to extend but only as friends hang out, friends, school friends, a relationship that is built based on the same interests.

4. Friendship. In this stage, there is no ' masks ' and the value of openness being upheld. And at this stage, the number of friends will be naturally selected. So there are only a few who became a friend.

As disciples of the Lord Jesus who has 70 people. Of the 70 people that there are only 12 disciples entails, from 12 just 3 disciples which is often invited by Him, and only one of 10 people the loved one, namely John. Instead it means Jesus loved John more than others. But, Jesus saw based on capacity or potential, anyone can be a friend of his.

So, do not enforce the ones that are in the friendship level entered in the level your

friendship. Very dangerous ..., because in the level of friendship is only filled by people who readily ' blow ' to you, whenever it is. Remember God's word written in bible "... iron sharp iron, human sharp his/her fellow .. And there is another word that is written" a bad association ruin good habits. " So, before you enter someone in level your friendship, you should really examine the outside and inside.

Don't, just because he's handsome, gorgeous, the response was positive, action that captivates, make you easily include them in the level your friendship. Do not because the first sight captivates you, continue to wrap and end up in bed. So many experiences, relationships love hastily built, example: Monday-Wednesday chat, Thursday invites meets, Friday dinner, Saturday, Sunday dating and doing sexual intercourse. Premarital sex is too fast and too furious.

A perfect example of love is God himself. Because God is love and that love wait ... .... Love must also be followed by the Saints, because God is holy. Holiness relationship brings a true love. The love of God never fails, evidenced by the believers were sent prophets, even himself, only to recover and build a relationship with us. If God can't wait, then it is from the first we die because we are not Holy aka sin.

So, please respect it, practise with wisely, build it, patiently going through the process and his work in our relationship your friendship. And for those of you who already have a partner, please respect your spouse and keep your Holiness. Because your body is the Temple of God, the place of God.

Relationships need a process, the process of giving birth to a true love. ...

Kissing After Oral Sex

Oral sex according to sexologist is a warm-up phase before making any penetration. Oral sex is pretty commonly done as a variation of sex for those who are married. However, quite a lot of people that aren't married are also doing oral sex. But here we are not talking about whether oral sex can be performed.

Oral sex becomes questionable when most people consider oral sex hygiene especially related to oral health. Ironically when one partner performs oral sex, his partner refused to smooch with a dirty reason. This is where conflicts typically needs, at a time when one party is pleased to oral sex by his longtime partner, the other is still uneasy. I think you should discuss the importance of communication in the absence of oral sex. Depending on the deal you guys, due to basically oral sex performed on a basis like the same love. There is no measure that is quite clear, given the oral sex is part of foreplay. Kissing lips after performing oral sex in my opinion legitimate only do if you

both feel free to do. Once again it depends with how you guys communicating this well with each other. According to me if you feel uneasy, don't need to be debated and don't do. Remember oral sex is only a small part of the process of intimacy. Don't shred your intimacy with just poor communication.
Be Wise do kissing and oral sex and do it all in the bonds of marriage.